PEOPLE KEEP TELLING ME TO CUT MY HAIR—BUT THEY HAVE NO IDEA WHY I WON’TPeople love giving opinions on things that don’t concern them.

“You’d look younger with a shorter cut.”
“Long hair is for young women.”
“Isn’t it a hassle to maintain at your age?”

I hear it all the time. I’m in my 60s, and my hair is long—down past my waist. It’s a soft blonde-white now, like winter sunlight. And no, I don’t cut it. Not because I’m stubborn. Not because I’m trying to cling to youth.

But because of him.

Most people assume I just don’t like change. If they only knew.

Every morning, when I brush through the strands, I remember his fingers running through it. When the wind catches it, I remember him laughing, calling me his “wildflower.” He used to love my hair—said it made me look like something out of a dream. And then one day, just like that, he was gone.

Cancer doesn’t care about promises or future plans. It took him fast, too fast. And I made a decision, standing beside his hospital bed, his hand limp in mine—I wouldn’t cut my hair. Not until I was ready to let go.

Related Posts

A Newly Confirmed Development Puts Donald Trump Jr. Back in the Spotlight

A newly confirmed development involving Donald Trump Jr. quickly became a central topic across political and media conversations today. As the eldest son of former U.S. President Donald Trump, Trump…

A Rocky Season of a Weight-Loss Show: Contestants’ Struggles, Dropouts, and Transformations

The newest season of a popular weight-loss program did not deliver the same level of success seen in earlier editions. Several contestants struggled to lose weight, and…

Doctors Warn: 7 Everyday Habits That Harm Your Heart

Most people think heart problems only come from big, obvious things—like heavy smoking or extreme obesity. But in reality, many heart issues develop quietly, built day by…

Why a Toad Might Appear in Your Home—and How to Understand What It Means

Finding a toad in your yard, by your doorway, or unexpectedly inside your home can be surprising. For some, the reaction is purely practical—How did it get…

Hydration After 60: Simple Adjustments That Support Heart, Kidneys, and Daily Energy

As we move into our 60s and beyond, hydration becomes less about quantity alone and more about strategy. The body still needs water just as much as…

A Moment of Hope Turned Into Heartbreak for Snoop Dogg’s Family

What began as an encouraging update soon gave way to profound sadness for the family of Snoop Dogg. Only weeks earlier, his daughter Cori Broadus had shared hopeful news that…