A 19-year-old woman moved in with her boyfriend’s grandmother, who allowed them to use a spare room. Issues arose when the girlfriend noticed cleanliness problems and the boyfriend’s mother’s early morning visits. After failed attempts to address the noise issue, the girlfriend confronted the mother, Janice, with her boyfriend.

Janice reacted negatively, causing a heated exchange. Eventually, Janice kicked the girlfriend out, leading her to move back temporarily with her alcoholic father. Upon returning to the grandmother’s house, tensions escalated over household items. The girlfriend sought advice on Reddit, questioning whether she was wrong for taking her belongings after the confrontation with Janice or if the grandmother’s unwillingness to let go of the past was to blame.