I’M A FARMER’S DAUGHTER—AND SOME PEOPLE THINK THAT MAKES ME LESS

I grew up on a sweet potato farm about ten miles outside of town, where mornings start before the sun and “vacation” means a county fair. My parents have dirt under their nails and more grit than anyone I know. I used to think that was enough for people to respect us.

Then I got into this fancy scholarship program at a private high school in the city. It was supposed to be a big break. But on my first day, I walked into homeroom with jeans that still smelled a little like the barn, and this girl with a glossy ponytail whispered, “Ew. Do you live on a farm or something?”

I didn’t even answer. I just sat down and kept my head low. I told myself I was imagining things. But little comments kept coming. “What kind of shoes are those?” “Wait, so you don’t have WiFi at home?” One guy asked me if I rode a tractor to school.

I kept my mouth shut, studied hard, and never mentioned home. But inside, I hated that I felt ashamed. Because back home, I’m not “that farm girl.” I’m Mele. I know how to patch a tire, wrangle chickens, and sell produce like nobody’s business. My parents built something real with their hands. Why did I feel like I had to hide that?

The turning point came during a school fundraiser. Everyone was supposed to bring something from home to sell. Most kids showed up with cookies from a box or crafts their nannies helped them make. I brought sweet potato pie—our family’s recipe. I made six. Sold out in twenty minutes.

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