I picked up my daughter from kindergarten and on our way home she said something that surprised me at first but I casually laughed it off. Little children, especially five-year-olds do invent things. They have vivid imagination, don’t they?
So when Lily asked me if she could invite her “real dad” to dinner on Father’s Day, I was certain the “dad” she was talking about was some imaginary friend.
“Of course you can,” I said.
However, as she watched at the traffic lights, she said, “You know daddy, my real dad sometimes comes over and brings mommy chocolate.”
And once, while they played in the living room, he whispered to her that he was her real dad.
I tried to convince myself that maybe she had a dream of this man she was talking about, or maybe it was a neighbor or a family member that stopped by while I was at home, but my wife never mentioned any man.
Honestly, I got a bit concerned, and I just wanted to be sure there was nothing going on behind my back. So as Father’s Day was approaching, my anxiety grew bigger and bigger. Finally, I decided to fake a trip out of the country but stay at the city and monitor the house.
My wife seemed devastated when she learned I won’t be home for the holiday. She said she had already planned the day and tried to convince me to stay home and call my boss to cancel the trip, but I said it was an emergency.
On Father’s Day, I parked my car near my home, and at exactly 6 p.m. a man carrying a gift knocked on the door. A few seconds later, someone opened the door and he entered.
I waited for half and hour longer before I got home myself.
When Lily saw me, she ran towards me and said, “Daddy, come meet my real dad.”
She had a huge smile on her face, unaware of the situation.
My wife and the man froze. And then he said, “Listen, I can explain.”
There was no yelling, no harsh words, and no accusations. I tried to stay as calm as possible while I listened to that man explaining that he and my wife dated briefly before we got married and she got pregnant. He always assumed the child could be him, and my wife wasn’t certain either.
He said he had always wanted to meet Lily and watched her from distance until one day my wife noticed him and the two talked about the possibility of Lily being his child.
None of us raised their voice. The three of us sat at the table and spoke calmly because we all knew Lily deserved stability and honesty.
The days that followed were blur. That man wanted a DNA test and the results showed Lily was his daughter.
The day I learned the truth my world collapsed, but my wife and I stayed together, and Lily’s real dad believed it would be for the best if things remained as they were. He only requested to be part of her life and see her occasionally.
He was a good man and a good father who wanted the best for our daughter, and as a father, I understood his pain.
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